DISCOVERY TO RECOVERY - AMANDA LOCKYER
By the end of today, you'll have more clarity about what's happening in your home than you've had in years.
For spouses and family members of people with addiction.
In three simple lessons you'll stop surviving and start living, without waiting for them to change first.
Video sessions + workbooks. Lifetime access. No group sharing. Start today.
This is for you if…
Read this and tell me
it's not exactly your life.
If four or more of these land - this workshop was built for you specifically.
-01-
You hold your breath every day
Waiting to see what version of them you'll get, and plan nothing anymore because you never know what they might do.
-02-
You've tried the begging, the pleading, the detective work, the ultimatums
And nothing has changed, except you feel more exhausted than ever.
-03-
You're snapping at your kids, running on empty at work
and spending your 2am hours Googling solutions that leave you feeling more lost..
-04-
You feel like a shell of yourself
your confidence is gone, small decisions feel enormous, and you've lost track of who you were before all of this.
-05-
You don't talk to anyone about it because it doesn't feel safe
or because you've been made to feel like it's your fault, or your secret to keep.
-06-
You're waiting for them to change so your life can start again
and you're painfully aware of how many years you've already spent waiting.
...You do not need to figure everything out right now.
You just need a healthier next step
The real cost of waiting
What is staying stuck
actually costing you?
Before you decide whether $77 is worth it - let's look at what you're already paying.
Not in dollars. In everything else.
$150 -$300 per session
With no guarantee it's designed for your specific situation - loving someone with addiction. And they end up telling you that you need to leave the relationship
Free - but no structured tools
Valuable community, but not a framework. Peer lead with no expertise. You go round in circles and you leave with validation but no ongoing support or a plan for your situation.
Hours you don't have
Conflicting advice. Information without direction that's not unique to your situation, creating more confusion, not less. You learn more about addiction but can't implement any action changes.
Years of your life on hold
Another year of not making plans. Not trusting yourself. Not feeling like yourself. Things deteriorate and you get further away from the life you hoped for.
Three hours with Amanda costs $77 - less than a single therapy session - and gives you a structured framework, practical tools, and a clear plan that you can return to for life.
You know...
Something has to change but you don't know where to start...
Amanda has been through every version of "help" that leaves you feeling drained, confused and judged. She built this to be everything wanted back when she was in the chaos of addiction.
WHAT'S INSIDE
Three sessions.
Each one builds on the last.
One hour each. Watch in snippets or all at once. Every session comes with a guided workbook so insight becomes action immediately.
Understand What's Really Going On
- Recognise the patterns — both theirs and yours — and why they feel impossible to break
- Learn exactly how addiction shows up in behaviour, and why it creates so much confusion
- Finally make sense of what's been happening in your home — with language to describe it
- Walk away with clarity, language for what you've been living, and a massive exhale.
What's Helping… and What's Hurting
- Identify the thoughts and reactions keeping you locked in the cycle
- Discover what's actually working — and what's quietly making things worse
- Get specific on what to stop, start, and do differently — starting this week
- Begin creating space in your life that genuinely supports you
- Walk away knowing exactly which levers to pull — and which to let go of.
Confidence, Calm & Your Next Small Step
- Get clear on what feels right for you to do next — without pressure, without overwhelm
- Build the kind of calm confidence that doesn't depend on their behaviour
- Replace guilt and overthinking with a clear, doable plan forward
- Walk away with a plan, a breath, and a whole new sense of steadiness.
- "Just focus on you" with zero actionable steps behind it
- "Detach with love" or "just leave" — one-liners that solve nothing
- A sit-around-the-fire chat about everything you can't control
- A one-size-fits-all framework you must follow to the letter
- Something that requires you to have it all together to start
- Results that last a week, then fade.
- Clarity on what is actually happening — and what you can do about it
- Evidence-based tools built on kindness, not shame
- A private space where you don't have to perform being okay
- Confidence to take your next smallest step — whatever that looks like
- Foundations that keep giving back long into the future
- Something you can do in 15-minute windows, in your own time
The offer
Everything you're getting
and what it's worth.
Here's what's included when you join today and what each element is worth on its own.
3 x video sessions with Amanda
Structured, self-paced. Watch anytime, in any order, as many times as you need.
3 guided workbooks - one per session
Practical exercises to turn insight into real action. Not fluff - tools you'll actually use.
Lifetime access
Return whenever life brings another wave. This is yours permanently.
Complete privacy - no group sharing required
No one at home needs to know. No public forums. Entirely yours.
Total real-world value
Your guide
Hi, I'm Amanda.
I am possibly not your typical person in this seat. I was a corporate accountant - four years of university, professional certifications, a career I was proud of. And then my life slowly became unrecognisable.
I was confused more often than not. I was “smart”, surely I could figure this out alone. But whatever I tried didn’t help. Sometimes it made things worse. I reached breaking point. And then I reached out.
What followed were years of trial and error - “help” that wasn’t helpful, “help” that judged, “help” that caused more damage - until I finally pieced together what actually worked.
Today I work globally with women and men navigating emotional burnout, caregiving, and silent struggle. With over 9 years of personal and professional experience, I bring lived experience, evidence-based tools, and a commitment to conversations that are honest, compassionate, and occasionally a little bit funny.
Because it’s not all bad. But it can absolutely bring you to your knees.
“I am here because spouses and families deserve better support. Support that actually helps. And when families get better support - everyone wins.”
What sets Amanda apart
Lived experience - not just studied theory
She has walked this road personally. That difference is felt in every word of this workshop.
No shame, no jargon, no drama
She creates space to say the things you've kept hidden - with honesty, warmth, and zero judgement.
Evidence-based and practical
Every tool is grounded in what actually works. Not just what sounds good in a workshop.
Kindness as the foundation
Every resource in this program is built on kindness first. Because you've had enough of the other kind.
Global reach, human touch
Amanda works with women all over the world. People leave feeling seen, supported, and steadier.
I've been where you are.
And better is possible.
When you know something needs to change, but feel overwhelmed about where to begin.
This is the first step to getting out of survival mode.
You are worth it, and I'm right here with you.
I've been where you are.
And better is possible.
Discovery to Recovery is starting point when you know something needs to change, but feel overwhelmed about where to begin.
This is the first step to getting out of survival mode, and into living your one great life.
Real results
From women who were
exactly where you are.
Before → After. Because that's what actually matters.
Before
I had spent three years entirely focused on his recovery. I had nothing left for myself and didn't even realise how much I had disappeared.
After
This was the first time anyone told me I was allowed to focus on my own recovery. I didn't realise how much I'd abandoned myself and my health until I started getting my life back.
— Workshop participant
Before
I felt terrified to do something for myself. Like it was selfish. Like somehow I didn't deserve it when he was the one struggling with addiction.
After
After watching the first two sessions it was so clear that me being better in myself, calmer and less reactive was actually helping my family and my husband, not just me. I wish I had found this years ago.
— Workshop participant
Before
Every conversation would turn into an argument. I was exhausted, on edge and reactive all the time and I hated it. But I didn't know what else to do, I kept pushing through.
After
The boundaries session alone changed everything. I noticed I was having fewer arguments because of my boundaries and actually 'doing' them. Almost for the first time, I understood how to do boundaries.
— Workshop participant
A starting point when you know something needs to change, but feel overwhelmed about where to begin.
This is the first step to getting out of survival mode.
Your questions, answered
Still on the fence?
I completely get it.
I'm so time-poor. I genuinely don't have space for one more thing.
I feel guilty spending money on myself when they're the one struggling.
What if my loved one isn't ready to get help?
I'm worried about my privacy.
I loved it and want more support. What else does Amanda offer?
Six months from now,
you have two options.
If you don't join today
- Still holding your breath every morning, waiting to see what version of them you'll get
- Still running on empty — snapping, surviving, not living
- Still Googling at 2am and feeling more lost than before
- Still waiting for them to change so your life can start again
- Another six months of life on hold
- Looking back and wishing you'd done something sooner
If you join today
- Making plans and following through on them — because you're not living in constant fear
- Responding to difficult moments instead of reacting to them
- Trusting yourself again — your instincts, your decisions, your voice
- Present for your kids, functional at work, no longer running on empty
- Armed with tools that keep working — whatever happens next with them
- In the driver's seat of your own life, for the first time in years
The choice is yours. You can keep waiting. O r you can take three hours and do something different. Either way, time keeps moving forwards.