You’ve been so focused on their recovery.
It’s time to focus on yours.
This is the first time you won't have to carry this on your own.
A supportive program for women navigating the emotional weight of loving someone with addiction without needing them to change first.
BEGIN YOUR RECOVERY NOWYou know this feeling
You weren't the one who started this.
But you're carrying all of it.
You didn't ask for this life. You love someone and that someone's addiction has slowly taken over your days, your sleep, your sense of self. You manage the chaos, hold the family together, and quietly fall apart in private. If any of this sounds familiar, this program was built for you.
You wake up already bracing for the day, wondering what version of them you'll get.
You've made yourself smaller so there's less conflict. Less noise. Less drama.
You feel guilty even thinking about your own needs when they're struggling.
You've Googled "how to help someone with addiction" at 2am and felt more lost afterward.
You keep telling yourself: "When things settle down, I'll deal with how I'm feeling."
You're exhausted. And you don't know how much longer you can keep going like this.
The hard truth
Waiting for them to change
is not a recovery plan.
You have spent months, maybe years managing, hoping, adjusting, and surviving. And none of that has given you peace.
Because the missing piece isn't their next step. It's yours.
"Your stability does not have to depend on their sobriety."
This is not about giving up on them. It's about finally giving something to yourself so you stop running on empty, stop making decisions from a place of fear, and start showing up for your life again.
And here's what changes everything: when you are grounded and stable, you become a far better support to the person you love. This isn't selfish. This is strategy.
Introducing Recovery Reclaimed: Together
8 weeks. Practical tools and support.
Real emotional stability.
An 8-week guided experience to help you stop carrying so much, start living differently, and discover that peace doesn't have to wait for your loved one's recovery.
Recovery Reclaimed: Together combines the proven Recovery Reclaimed programme with live coaching, community and practical support -so you don't just understand these ideas... you begin living them.
And life gets better, because you made changes.
START YOUR RECOVERY1. Understanding What Addiction Does to You
2. Calming Your Nervous System
3. Stepping Out of Survival Mode
4. Boundaries That Actually Hold
5. Communication Without Escalation
6. Rebuilding Trust in Yourself
7. Supporting Your Loved One the Right Way
8. Reclaiming Your Identity
Your Recovery Matters
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I had spent three years focusing entirely on my husband's recovery. This was the first time anyone told me I was allowed to focus on mine. I didn't realise how much I had lost myself until I started getting it back.
- Jenny T - Canada
What changes
Here's what women describe after going through this program.
Not overnight. Not magic. Real, practical shifts from doing the work consistently.
Steadier
Clearer
Less alone
More grounded
Empowered
Trusted
How it works
Privately supportive. Flexible. Yours.
This program was designed with one person in mind: someone who needs support, but has zero capacity for another thing on their plate. Everything about how it's structured reflects that.
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Completely Safe
No one else needs to know you're here. A safe, supportive community where you can participate in whatever way feels right for you.
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Learn at Your Pace
Wth the encouragement, accountability and support to help you keep going when life gets hard.
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Video + Workbooks
Each module pairs a short video with a practical workbook so you can apply it immediately.
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Lifetime Access
Return whenever you need. Life with addiction is unpredictable - this program will always be here.
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No Confrontation Required
This work is entirely about you. Your loved one doesn't need to participate - or even know.
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Emotionally Safe
Every element of this program is designed with nervous system safety in mind. You go at your pace and I'll be alongside you at every step.
From women who've been where you are
Here's what they want
you to know.
These are real experiences from people who were exactly where you are - exhausted, uncertain, and quietly hoping something would change.
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I had spent three years focusing entirely on my husband's recovery. This was the first time anyone told me I was allowed to focus on mine. I didn't realise how much I had lost myself until I started getting it back.
Kelly B - USA
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I was terrified to spend money on something for me. But within the first two modules I understood that me being calmer and clearer was actually helping my family - not just me. I wish I had done this sooner.
- Stephanie G - USA
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The boundaries module alone was worth it. Not because it started arguments - but because for the first time in years, I had fewer of them. I finally understood what boundaries are actually for.
- Loren G Canada
Why Together?
Because understanding something...and living it... are two very different things.
Many women already know they can't control someone else's drinking.
They know boundaries matter.
They know they need to focus on themselves.
But knowing... and actually doing it in the middle of another difficult night...
are very different experiences.
That's why I created Recovery Reclaimed: Together.
To give you give a reliable source of effective strategies and tools that work.
To give you support while you put it into practice.
What's Included in your 8 weeks of support...
Recovery Reclaimed Program
Your step-by-step roadmap to understanding what to carry, what to let go of, and how to begin living differently.
Welcome Session
Start with clarity, connection and a plan for the next eight weeks.
Live Coaching Sessions
Bring your questions, your challenges and your real-life situations, so we can work through them together. We'll have three group coaching sessions.
Private Community
A place where you don't have to explain yourself.
Where women truly understand.
Where you can ask questions, celebrate progress and receive support every week.
Closing Session
Reflect on how far you've come, celebrate your progress and create a plan for continuing your journey.
Over 8 weeks, we'll...
✦ Learn together.
✦ Reflect together.
✦ Celebrate Progress together.
✦ Work through the difficult moments together.
✦ Build confidence together.
By the end of the eight weeks, you'll have more than just knowing what helps.
You'll have changed.
Our 8 weeks together... with a plan
What Your Eight Weeks Together Looks Like
So here's what you can expect.
September 3rd
September 8th
September 22nd
October 6th
October 20th
November 3rd
Live Session Times
USA & Canada: Tuesday
- EDT: 7pm
- CDT: 6pm
- MDT: 5pm
- Pc: 4pm
- (last session is in Standard time, so will be one hour earlier (eg. 3pm PST and 6pm EST
Australia (AEST): 9am Wednesday
Can't join live?
That's absolutely okay.
Every live session is recorded, so you'll be able to watch the replay whenever it suits you. You'll also have the opportunity to submit questions ahead of time, so you can still receive coaching and support even if you can't attend live.
Imagine eight weeks from now...
This is where your workshop and sales page connect beautifully.
Imagine looking back and realising...
- You're spending less time thinking about their drinking.
- You're clearer about what belongs to you—and what doesn't.
- You're responding with more confidence and less fear.
- You're making decisions you trust.
- You're sleeping better because your mind isn't constantly racing.
- You've started enjoying moments of your own life again.
- You no longer feel like you're carrying this alone.
This is what Recovery Reclaimed: Together was designed to help you experience.
Recovery Reclaimed: Together isn't about learning more. It's about finally having the support to make changes and live your life.
You have been holding everything
together for a very long time.
You don't have to keep doing it alone, and you don't have to keep doing it this way. Your recovery matters. Your stability matters. You matter not just as a partner, a mother, a caregiver. As a person.
This program exists because you deserve the same level of support you've been pouring into everyone else. This is not ongoing therapy. This is not years of trial and error. This is a structured path to stability you can return to anytime.
Recovery Reclaimed: Together
$747 USD
Complete Recovery Reclaimed program + 8 weeks of live coaching, community and guided support
✓ Recovery Reclaimed Program
✓ Lifetime Access to the Program
✓ 8 Weeks of Guided Support
✓ Live Welcome Session
✓ 3 Live Group Coaching Sessions
✓ Private Community
✓ Closing Celebration & Next Steps Session
And Support bonuses if you join in the next 48 hours
💫 30 minute 1:1 coaching session with Amanda - $95
💫 1 week of Direct 1:1 ‘in your pocket’ support - $190
💫 Momentum Coaching Circle / VIP Small-Group Coaching Session - small-group coaching experience after Week 3 - $190
💫 The Reclaimed Hour - 7 short audio coaching sessions to help you reclaim more of your life—one hour at a time - $197
💫 The Everyday Decision Guide/ The Crisis Companion (What to do when everything feels overwhelming.) - $47
Your Guide Through This
Meet, Amanda Lockyer
Amanda is leading the way in shifting how we talk about addiction - bringing lived experience, emotional depth, and practical tools to the often-overlooked impact addiction has on families and partners.
Her journey spans from the high-pressure world of corporate accounting to the deeply human realm of addiction recovery. That background gives her something rare: she understands both the need to hold it all together on the outside, and the quiet devastation that can live underneath.
With over 9 years of personal and professional experience, Amanda is on a mission to create space for the stories we don't talk about enough - with compassion, clarity, and just the right touch of humour. Because while it's not all bad, a loved one's addiction can bring you to your knees.
Today she works globally with women navigating emotional burnout, caregiving, and silent struggle - equipping them with tools to build real boundaries, reclaim confidence, and make values-led decisions, even in the messiest of life seasons.
What sets Amanda apart
She has walked this road personally. Not just studied it. That difference is felt in every conversation.
She dismantles stigma with honesty and warmth - creating space to speak the things you've kept quiet.
Every tool in this program is designed to be useable in real life - not just in theory.
Amanda works with women all over the world. Her approach leaves people feeling seen, supported, and steadier.
"She blends lived experience, deep compassion, expertise and practical strategy to bring the hard conversations to life - without judgement, jargon, or drama."
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this program private?
What if my loved one isn’t in recovery or refuses help?
Will this make things worse or cause more conflict?
I feel overwhelmed - what if I can’t keep up?
Is now the right time to do this?
What if I feel like I need more support than this?
A final word
You have been holding
everything
together for a very long time.
You don't have to keep doing it alone, and you don't have to keep
doing it this way. Your recovery matters. Your stability matters.
You matter - not just as a partner, a mother, a caregiver. As a person.
This program exists because you deserve the same level of support you've been pouring into everyone else.
Begin Recovery Reclaimed: Together - $747
